This is a sexually explicit blog about sexual dominance and submission. Please exercise discretion if you are underage, or if reading about such things is likely to upset you.
I’m basically an overly analytical, often self-doubting, half-butch woman who loves dominating my beautiful, kind, smart, sarcastic submissive boyfriend. I’ve never been in this type of relationship before, though I’ve been kinky as far back as I can remember. We’ve been together since May of 2007, so a good while now, and things have progressed a long, long way in that time.
Update 3/31/09: Lately we’ve been switching, so you may read about my submissive adventures as well.
Oh, some other stuff:
how the blog got its name (hint: it’s not me that’s “devastating”)
what he’s like (and a picture!)
why I use the words “slave” and “mistress”
my fundamental attitude towards bdsm
Want to email me? Try devastatingyet at gmail dot com.
You can also IM me on Yahoo – my user name is devastatingyet. Keep in mind I may be at work.
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Vespertine Erotica » Something just for me // 20 July 2008 at 11:22 am
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